Trick and Treat (with Boots and Stockings!)

Van Halen was definitely onto something with the lyrics of their “Everybody Wants Some” track…
“I've always liked those kind of high heels, too, you know.
No, no, no, no don't take 'em off. Don't take, leave 'em on, leave 'em on”

I’ve always wanted to fuck my girlfriend while she’s still wearing her boots or heels… Can’t really explain why, but I know I’m not the only male with this fantasy.

After I kept playfully suggesting that she wear a pair of sexy boots to bed sometime, she finally surprised me on Halloween by wearing her boots and stockings to bed. Sliding my cock up and down her legs,  humping my dick against her boots and stockings was such a treat… An even greater privilege than being permitted to orgasm. The feel of my cock against her soft stockings contrast against her smooth shiny leather was exquisite!

Incredible Ejaculation without Orgasm

(Posting from the unpublished archive... There seems to be a never-ending desire to ponder the difference between the many types of Ruined Orgasms. This experience, I consider to be a Minimized Orgasm, but the delay is unlike anything I've experienced before.)

She woke me up from a nap, and easily teased me to erection so that she could have her way with me. 
I climbed over her, hovering my cock just above but not touching her pussy, but within her reach so she could use it to tease herself.

Rubbing herself using only the head of my cock for about half an hour, I was teased and frustrated beyond belief, but I maintained position, allowing her to tease and edge herself.

She finally wanted to sit on me as we sat down together, facing each other for some penetrative action. Eventually she got me to lay down, and she climbed on top to have her orgasm, as she edged me 3 times… I got close while she was cumming, but was able to hold it. She continued to edge me a second time, stopping while  I gripped her bum, completely freezing in place, before starting up again...

On the third edge, she stopped completely. “I don’t want to make you sleepy!” she said. As I clenched my PC muscles, nothing came out for at least 10 seconds, and then I felt the cum streaming, the whole load slowly oozing out of my cock… She had triggered a full ejaculation without any orgasm sensations at all. (after removing the condom and measuring the contents, 1tbs/5cc. Almost half an ounce!)

Sometimes with such a Minimized Orgasm, a bit of dizziness and sleepiness still tends to occur… But I consider it to be perfectly done when there’s an ejaculation without throbbing contractions, and the cum dribbles or oozes out, without causing any drowsiness.

Rubber Ready

She loves it when her cock is ready for sex.

She likes it when I wear a condom over my flaccid penis… I’ve found that using cock ring (the soft, stretchy variety), I can keep a condom on my member, allowing it to get hard and soft, controlling any unwanted leakage. No mess on her sheets, and makes her cock available for spontaneous playtime whenever she wants it. She loves it when her cock is ready for sex.

After a week of orgasm denial, a few gentle finger strokes turned a soft penis turned into a raging hard-on in less than a minute. After she had one orgasm on my cock, and another one in a 69 with my tongue, she proceeded to stroke my cock to multiple edges, completely stopping with her hands still frozen, gripping the cock throughout. I pleaded with her not to let me cum, and she proceeded to edge me more times than I can count.

Smacking a Full Ballsack…

After nine days without ejaculating, even the feel of my pants against my semi-erect penis tends to feel good. In another exquisite tease, my talented lady used her ass to grind up and down my erection until I reached her desired level of stiffness. She eventually hops up onto the bed as I follow her in a trance. She squats down with her ass still facing me, she continues to grind against my member. I stood with my legs apart, squatted, kneeled, and pretty much did whatever she needed me to do so she could rub her clit with my cock

Even the slightest touches to my genitals felt amazing, and I’m getting so turned on as my woman gradually removes her items of clothing, down to her blue thong, as I continually become more aroused, horned up, and dizzy, being slowly taken into ecstasy… All the while, it’s still just the top side of the shaft that she’s grinding, so I’m getting worked up extremely slowly, with no real chance of cumming.

At one point, the sensations felt so good, it felt like I was inside her, but she was still just teasing my cock between her pussy and the bed. Eventually, she grabbed me by the balls, and suddenly tugged me forward, as she leaned further across the bed.

More grinding, more dizziness… As we rocked back and forth, I got a wicked surprise - She suddenly tagged me in the ballsack so hard that it sent a shockwave right through my entire body.  She had never struck my balls that hard before, not to mention the fact that they were already full and swollen from 9 days of teasing. It hurts for a split second, followed by a few seconds of surreal bliss as the blood gets flowing. I stood with my legs apart and cautiously braced for another one, partly dreading it, but secretly hoping that she’d do it again.

She finally got me to lay down for her, as she mounted me, and shoved her gorgeous tits in my face. I devoured them, sucking and squeezing them, trying to fit as much of each breast into my mouth as I could, gently biting and sucking as she kept encouraging me to be rougher and more ravenous with her boobs.

After she rode herself to orgasm, she slid off my cock, and proceeded to stroke my dick, slowly but firmly, up and down, making sure that she got me to the edge. I love not knowing if she’s going to make me cum. I also love the challenge of holding it until she says so. As I closed in on the point of no return, I warned her that I was getting close. She kept stroking until I couldn't take it anymore, and at her request, I released my entire load... Way more cum than usual.

I knew I could have lasted at least a few more days, and as usual, I was slightly disappointed that she let me blow my load... But my raging hard-on the next morning was a stiff reminder that my girl knows exactly what she's doing.

Tease & Denial After Work...

(Continued from previous)

...When I got home, we made out, which eventually progressed to light teasing, to heavier teasing, to incredibly heavy teasing… She took the ballsack between her fingers, held them firmly, and twisted them sideways, up beside the base of the cock. Then, with upstrokes only, she proceeded to absolutely wring and wrench on the penis, I swear, harder than she’s ever done before. She twisted it, pulled it, even tugged it downwards.…

She was observing my every twitch, and using the subtle clues to back off at just the right moments. “I’m just going to keep teasing you, over and over again…” she said. That got me even harder, and even more precum seeped out.. “Look how wet you are!” She exclaimed as she observed the effects of her female magic. “I know there’s more in there!” *giggles*.

With both hands wrapped around the shaft, she dragged the cock down to the ground, leading her helpless boyfriend with it…. “Amazing how I bring him down here, and you have to follow… OK, back up again!” Still gripping her cock, she immediately raised her arms up, forcing me to stand all the way back up again. She did this a few times, and seemed to really enjoy how easy it was to lead me around, tugging on the penis to move me around like a puppet… She mocked my plight, and offered a fake “I’m sorry!” with a giggle.

 Eventually taking a seat on the floor, she dragged the penis down with her where she could sit and play with it. She released her vice grip on the testicles at this point, but whenever I’d get close to the edge, she’d swat and spank the testicles a few times with a playful giggle. “Gotta let you cool down a little bit!” *more giggles*.

Each time I reached an edge or got close, She’d leave my genitals untouched for 10 seconds, sometimes a full minute, always with a few random pokes and slaps before she’d take hold of it again, sometimes stroking it slowly, alternating with some incredibly fast strokes before stopping.

It drove me absolutely wild, and I loved every minute of it… The unpredictability… Being teased and edged by a sexy woman who’s familiar with your sexual responses is absolutely blissful… She pushes my endurance, and knows exactly how much I can take… And exactly how long she can vigorously stroke it without making me explode. She controlled the scene so beautifully, and completely made my mind melt… I love the amazing little woman who rocks my world!

Tease & Denial Before Work…

My sweetheart lured me back into the bedroom… As I kissed her, I made a comment about how cute she looked, and she replied “I’m even cuter under the covers….” She naturally had my curiosity, so I slowly peeled off the covers to reveal a blue lace bra.

She invited me to inspect her matching panties, so I pulled the covers completely off her… I began kissing her chest, hips, and the outer edges of her panties near her thighs. Before I knew what was coming over me, I was dry humping her.

The little devil on my shoulder kept telling me I could sneak in a quickie, but I really had to get going. As I slid off, she asked “Where is that hard cock going?”. I dropped my pants to my ankles, and put my hands behind my back… She crawled over and oh-so gently grabbed my throbbing erection, teasing and playing with it. She licked it from base to tip a few times, and even took it partially in her mouth.

There's something so thrilling about Tease & Denial before work... Having an orgasm tends to leave me drained, slow and dopey...

But being on the sexual edge gives me more energy, with a bit of a happy sex buzz that takes you away from mundane meetings, policies and other work jargon... Plus, the first time you go to the bathroom, your cock head is stuck to your underwear with precum, a pleasant reminder of the morning tease that took place.

Naptime Turns into Playtime...

Under the covers, she easily teased the cock to an erection...
Then, I noticed the lacy lingerie she was wearing

She said she just wanted me to cuddle up with her for a nap… Under the covers, she easily teased the cock to an erection in no-time, as I tried to stay calm and collected, genuinely believing she wanted to nap - Until I noticed the lacy lingerie she was wearing…

My cock throbbed and dripped as I went down on her. Using just the tip of my erection, she brought herself to orgasm, with her usual screams and moans. With my fingertips, I wrapped her pussy lips around the underside of my cock. I enjoyed the warmth, while she really enjoyed the sensations. I then entered her, gave gentle thrusts, and in no time, she was climaxing into a second, more powerful orgasm that had her absolutely screaming and quivering for about a minute, complete with high pitch shrieking! When I commented on it, she said her G-spot and clit were being hit at the same time.

I edged inside her for a while, until her pussy couldn’t take any more, I pulled out, and rested my stiff cock where she could reach it.

Today was Sunday - The day she said she was going to make me cum... Part of me wanted a release, but another part of me wanted to hold onto it so the teasing can continue... She gripped my begging cock with her fingers, and began stroking very firm but steady. Then she then said something that really got my blood flowing… “You’re gonna cum for me - But only a little bit... Three squirts!”

Making a ring with her fingers, she firmly grabbed the ballsack, tugging it all the way down, and proceeding to torment the cock with very slow, hard strokes. It was a while before I got close, and when I was finally there, she used her thumb and forefinger on the head of the cock, tipping me just past the edge…

She counted four squirts, and playfully
called me on it, like a good teasing girl should.

She let go, and I attempted to produce the requested shots of semen, as she counted them out. "One... Two... Three..."  I couldn’t hit the brakes in time, and she counted four squirts. She playfully called me on it, like a good teasing girl should. (I’m not sure if she has any devious punishment in mind for that extra spurt… Perhaps four weeks without cumming will do the trick!)

Now my balls are delightfully sore…  Possibly because those muscles haven’t pumped out any cum for a while, and/or the usual aching of full balls that have been teased… It's like feeling the burn of your muscles, fondly reflecting upon a good workout. My aching balls constantly remind me of the sexy woman who keeps them that way.

Release Day?

It hasn’t even been 48 hours since I was teased and denied by my Princess, but it already feels like two full days…

When she told me that I wouldn’t be cumming until Sunday, I was ecstatic. I absolutely love tease and denial play, and can hold cum for a month… I usually spurt every few weeks… But with her choosing a day where I’ll be allowed to cum, she’s completely and totally gotten into my head. A great example of mind over matter… She’s melted my mind, which has oozed down to fill the cock and balls for her.

As the release date approached, I became more and more eager at the prospect of cumming… To hold the load for another week would normally easy… But knowing that she’ll take her sperm from me at some point today is keeping me all worked up. I just don’t know how she’ll do it, whether it’ll be during sex, during a shower, or a random handjob somewhere… Being sexually controlled by a deviously teasing woman who wants to collect my juices is completely exhilarating!

So far this year, she’s had 8 orgasms, while I’ve had two. Most guys can be selfish, because that’s a healthy ratio of 4 to 1.

It’s incredibly erotic to have a beautiful woman decide who cums, also when, where, why, and how (much).

She could be evil, and not let me cum until next Sunday… And I’d still love her for it.

Best Bedtime Story Ever…

After an exhausting day, I climbed into bed for the night... Feeling extra playful, my cute little woman was followed me, took off my pants, and began tickling the testicles. It always gets me going, because I just want her to grab the cock! She continued to touch and work the ballsack until she produced a satisfactory wet spot on my underwear.

When I asked if she wanted to ride, she casually dismissed it. “No, I just want to play with you!” She giggled.

She proceeded to put me through a session of intense ball sucking and deep throat, cock-sucking action, bringing me to the edge several times as I begged her to send me to bed all hard and horny. She replied with a deviously wicked comment: “You’re not cumming for me tonight… I’m not going to let you cum until Sunday!”

I laid back, spread my legs wide open, leaving my genitals at her mercy. With her lips wrapped tightly around the ballsack, creating so much suction and pressure on the testicles, it almost felt like she was going to suck them clean off! She alternated between stroking and sucking, taking it deep into her mouth, up and down, real slow and intense… She kept up a slow, steady pace, but strong, powerful and consistent like a vacuum cleaner, keeping both her hands and mouth busy, working the whole package up and down. Once she was done, she requested that I wear nothing to sleep. "I want that thing to dangle between your legs. I like it when you dangle!"

"I’m not going to let you cum until Sunday!”

It’s nothing for me to hold my load for weeks at a time… But being told that I won’t be allowed a release until a certain day really makes the blood churn inside my balls. Her reasons are random and mysterious, and that’s half the thrill. She’s never verbally given me a release date before… The fact that she boldly stated that she will not let me cum until Sunday has is getting got me worked up, because I know there’s absolutely no chance of cumming until then… And she’ll (hopefully) tease and deny me about a dozen times before she finally harvests her cum.

It was probably one of the best tease sessions she's ever performed... In addition to completely controlling the scene from start to finish, she created countless waves of intense pleasure, a large quantity of edges, and a good amount of verbal teasing.

 

I don’t think she’ll ever completely understand why I crave being denied the very same blissful orgasms that she enjoys so much… As she enjoys her orgasms on a regular basis, I hold mine for as long as humanly possible. But the best part is that she’s becoming more and more accepting of the fact that I prefer not to ejaculate. She’s gotten so good at playing with the cock and balls that she seems to effortlessly manipulate my body as if it was her own. My talented little girlfriend has become the naughty little Masturbatrix that I always dreamed of…

Ruined Orgasms VS Minimized Orgasms.

I believe that the Internet needs more informative articles on Tease & Denial… Particularly when it comes to explaining the difference between a “Ruined Orgasm” and a “Minimized Orgasm”.

Some websites and forums define them as the same thing… Although they’re two completely different types of experiences, they’re obviously along the same line. But I will agree that these sensations can often blend together, creating a grey area where a man isn’t sure what the hell a woman just did to him… But it felt incredible!

A girl gets her man close to the edge,
then uses only a fingertip or two...

The classic, basic method is for these types of orgasms is when a girl gets her man close to the edge, then uses only a fingertip or two, swirling around the underside of the cock, right underneath the head. It’s frustratingly maddening, and it takes so long to cum this way that men generally don’t have the patience or discipline to do it themselves… Just enough stimulation to get the cum to slowly start oozing out, but avoiding any fast, heavy pumping that’s associated with a Full Orgasm.

Any dedicated woman can learn this simple technique to hold her honey at the brink of ejaculation. What happens then, is up to her. She can deny him from spurting altogether, or she can minimize his orgasm. Either way, it keeps him horny and agreeable for sex and/or more training.

But is that a Minimized Orgasm? Or a Ruined One?

I think that a Ruined Orgasm by definition, is the lack of physical sensations, without muscle contractions. A Full Orgasm is just that, full blown in both force and muscle contractions. So therefore, I feel that a Minimized Orgasm must fall somewhere in between a Full Orgasm and a Ruined Orgasm… Of course on the whole Orgasm Spectrum, a Minimized Orgasm would definitely be much closer to a Ruined Orgasm than a Full Orgasm…

With a Minimized Orgasm, there may be a few muscle
contractions, and the cum will spurt and shoot just a bit.

I tend to think that with a Minimized Orgasm, there may be a few muscle contractions, and the cum will spurt and shoot just a bit, and it’ll sometimes only be part of the load… (repeat this technique to experience achive the Slow Drain effect).

To me, a Ruined Orgasm tends to have pretty much the full volume of a regular orgasm, but stimulation is stopped immediately as the point of no return is reached, meaning all the fluids come out, and the cock gets no relief. Also with a Ruined Orgasm, the penis becomes more useless as a sex toy... With a Minimized Orgasm, the cock will often remain hard.

As I think back to some of the Minimized/Ruined Orgasms that my girlfriend has performed on me, sometimes I can accurately state that it was either a Ruined Orgasm or a Minimized Orgasm… But many of these experiences fall into an undefinable grey area, somewhere in between… Which is probably what causes the whole confusion between “Ruined Orgasms” and “Minimized Orgasms” in the first place.

Releasing Cum for the First Time This Year...

Two and a half weeks without cumming makes for a wicked makeout session in the shower. Kissing her while massaging her back, legs, thighs, and everywhere in between, I avoided her nipples, but teased around her breasts, brushing them only occasionally.

After getting permission to kiss her butt cheeks, I got behind her on my knees to kiss each one. She took the opportunity to squeeze and tease my stiff cock with her ankles, playfully rubbing it as the water cascaded down. I was already slippery and wet, and it felt great combined with the soapy water. I thanked her for teasing me, and reminded her how much I enjoy being teased. She replied that she enjoyed being teased.

Went to bed early, but she was staying up. She asked "Would be OK to wake you up in the middle of the night for…." I replied “Anything you want!”. I always en encourage her to take advantage of the cock or tongue anytime she feels like it, and she didn’t disappoint. At 3 am, she climbed into bed, and immediately started cock teasing with her fingers. It became stiff but remained pointing down in my sports underwear.

We started grinding and rubbing, and I begged to lick her pussy. She shoved it right in my face, and slid up and down. I could feel my cock throbbing and twitching. She took my erection inside of her, and held a good plateau for the better part of an hour before climaxing. She was going to give me a release, but I pleaded for her to not to. She instantly stopped moving, and I clenched my muscles. Nothing happened for a few seconds until a few streams of sperm slowly oozed out in a perfect minimized/ruined orgasm. She thought it was really hot to watch me struggle to hold back the majority of my orgasm... “I could feel it pulsing!" She said.

Girl on Top... Still Wearing Her Sexy Outfit

My girl has been wanting to model some of her naughty new bedroom attire… Instructing me to go and start the shower, I was all clean and ready for her when she joined...

Squishing her breasts up against my chest as the warm water cascaded down our bodies, she would occasionally give my cock a slight brush with her elbow or forearm… Took the tips of her fingers, and gently squeezed my scrotum once every few minutes. Even my ballsack was firm and full with anticipation. “I don’t want to tease you too much… I want to let my outfit do the rest.”

She asked me to give her a few minutes, and disappeared into the bedroom. I was treated to a lady in shiny purple lingerie, with teasing, kissable skin peeking out everywhere.


Usually, our sex sessions begin with me on top, in a missionary-like position - Except it's just rubbing cock-to-clit with no initial penetration . Tonight, she took the girl on top position from the get go. She kept her outfit on, simply sliding the crotch to the side so she could rub her pussy on my cock. She gradually inserted the penis into her pussy, just the head at first, slowly but surely taking the whole thing inside of her.

She came while I edged 3 or 4 times. She was getting too tired to ride, so I flipped her over for some missionary action… Haven’t done that in months… I've been trained and conditioned not to thrust, but to lay still and rock with her movements. To be on top of her and have full control of the speed, rate, and intensity... Something so natural, yet it felt so alien!

And gives something else to ponder in the realm of male orgasm denial... I originally heard that with Girl-on-top, it was difficult for a man to control his ejaculate... I may just out of practice from not being on top, but I found that with full control, I had to focus harder not to cum... Women tend to enjoy slow, sensual thrusts, and that's what I've learned to savor.... Being left to their own pace, men have a tenancy to go too fast, often requiring a break to cool down before continuing...

Loving Tease & Denial...

Enjoying male Orgasm Denial certainly doesn’t mean there won't be any sex… Quite the opposite. The biggest advantage for a girl to practice Tease & Denial is that her man is ready for sex anytime she requests it. I love getting instantly hard the second I kiss her neck or thigh. I enjoy the way that my cock steadily leaks precum, constantly reminded about the teasing when I feel it dripping down the inside of my leg.

A man being teased and denied orgasmic release will have an insatiable appetite for pussy… A girl can take advantage of this state of mind, and enjoy being licked for hours on end! And if the cock is properly confined before the session starts, the man will experience the frustration of constantly to become erect. It will enable him to perform tirelessly, while his mistress enjoys endless orgasms, and becomes completely satisfied. If she feels like it, she could release his cock and/or some semen. But if she’s feeling tired, worn out, or wants to continue the tease, she can leave her man all horny and achy for the rest of the night.

Dogs are house-trained, which makes them better pets. When males are trained to hold their cum, they become amazing pets, willing to please and perform all kinds of neat tricks.

Cum Denial Conquest Continues...

More than two weeks without ejaculating… She was willing to let me cum when we had sex five days ago, but I decided to hold it, preferring to curl up beside her, and go to sleep all horny and aching. So even though we’re barely into the New Year, the horny cock and balls between my legs feel full and ready.

As for the specifics of what counts as an orgasm, a drop or two merely proves that the edge has been reached. All orgasms must happen upon her request, with her permission only. Even a trained male may have an accident or two per year, which may be unavoidable, but anytime the load spills over, it counts as an orgasm, ruined or not. Nocturnal emissions won’t count, but my mistress will be informed of all wet dreams so she can giggle and take satisfaction that her teasing torment is effectively causing her man to subconsciously ejaculate at the thought of her...

Teased for 30 Seconds...

“Have you seen my new bra?”

Girls, don’t ever underestimate the value of giving your man a quick tease right as you’re leaving…

“You haven’t seen my new bra, have you?” She asked casually as she was heading out the door. She undid her winter coat, and lifted up her sweater and shirt to reveal a little black bra with red lace trim, complete with little red hearts. I got her permission to kiss above and below, and gently appreciated the soft warm skin of her side. It was a 30 second tease, but it got me hard, and has kept me horny and leaking for more than 30 minutes…

Sex Goal for the Year...

A particularly devious tease I've been pondering is being limited to 12 orgasms per year... Not for the faint of heart, it's certainly not something that a man can be trained to do overnight. The challenge has been posted before, but after several years of practicing orgasm denial, it's something that I'm willing to attempt. Perhaps the most encouraging reason is the fact that I managed to last 30 days without orgasm this year....

My balls were so sore and swollen that they hurt when I coughed. Yet, I still craved teasing! Even though after every tease, my nuts hurt even more than before, the act of being teased and aroused is a bit of a “relief” in itself. I get excited at the sight and touch of her underwear. Her warm, naked ass teasing me to sleep every night.

I was the one who got her into sleeping naked. Most teasing women prefer their males to sleep naked, nestled up to their pantied asses or thong-separated cheeks… Our bedtime rules state that only one of us must be naked. It used to be me, but she’s taken over that role, which is a tease in itself.

The last time I had an opportunity to expel my semen, I had begged her not to let me cum… A classic case of “be careful what you wish for”, because it was a full month to the day since she took ahold of my cock and told me to cum for her...

My testicles hadn’t pumped out a load in so long that I knew it was going to hurt if she ever made me cum again… To stay completely denied, the swollen ballsack would surely hurt even more. A ruined orgasm is probably a more favorable option, though the least painful form of “relief” would be to have some of my load slowly milked or drained, maybe with some fingertip teasing.

After fondling, caressing and squeezing her breasts and shoving them in my face, I went down on her, focusing gently on her clit. She came with only a few dozen strokes of my tongue, not requiring any penetration. After she finished her cute little screams, I began to ponder my fate… Would my ever-present erection be left untended, to ache and throb for the rest of the night? Or would she make me come so hard that my balls would hurt?

She pulled out our thick rubber penis tube that also has a ring that wraps securely around the testicles. The tube can only really be worn I’m super hard… So a whole month without an orgasm was a perfect opportunity to use this rubber toy. As she took my cock in her hands, she slowly stroked the top of my cock until I came, letting go as the flow of cum oozed and pumped itself out of my sack.

In the days that followed the release, I have regularly woken up with solid, morning wood, sometimes so stiff that I had to go outside for a morning pee.

So could I last longer than a month? Definitely. But I seem to think that 2-3 weeks seems to be the ideal period of time to be teased and denied… But not knowing just when you’ll be allowed to spill over is the most thrilling part! 30 days without cumming… Incredibly difficult to do it once, let alone a dozen consecutive times... I’ll need to put together a bunch of these stretches of denial if I’m ever going to be limited to 12 cummies per year...