Ruined Orgasms VS Minimized Orgasms.

I believe that the Internet needs more informative articles on Tease & Denial… Particularly when it comes to explaining the difference between a “Ruined Orgasm” and a “Minimized Orgasm”.

Some websites and forums define them as the same thing… Although they’re two completely different types of experiences, they’re obviously along the same line. But I will agree that these sensations can often blend together, creating a grey area where a man isn’t sure what the hell a woman just did to him… But it felt incredible!

A girl gets her man close to the edge,
then uses only a fingertip or two...

The classic, basic method is for these types of orgasms is when a girl gets her man close to the edge, then uses only a fingertip or two, swirling around the underside of the cock, right underneath the head. It’s frustratingly maddening, and it takes so long to cum this way that men generally don’t have the patience or discipline to do it themselves… Just enough stimulation to get the cum to slowly start oozing out, but avoiding any fast, heavy pumping that’s associated with a Full Orgasm.

Any dedicated woman can learn this simple technique to hold her honey at the brink of ejaculation. What happens then, is up to her. She can deny him from spurting altogether, or she can minimize his orgasm. Either way, it keeps him horny and agreeable for sex and/or more training.

But is that a Minimized Orgasm? Or a Ruined One?

I think that a Ruined Orgasm by definition, is the lack of physical sensations, without muscle contractions. A Full Orgasm is just that, full blown in both force and muscle contractions. So therefore, I feel that a Minimized Orgasm must fall somewhere in between a Full Orgasm and a Ruined Orgasm… Of course on the whole Orgasm Spectrum, a Minimized Orgasm would definitely be much closer to a Ruined Orgasm than a Full Orgasm…

With a Minimized Orgasm, there may be a few muscle
contractions, and the cum will spurt and shoot just a bit.

I tend to think that with a Minimized Orgasm, there may be a few muscle contractions, and the cum will spurt and shoot just a bit, and it’ll sometimes only be part of the load… (repeat this technique to experience achive the Slow Drain effect).

To me, a Ruined Orgasm tends to have pretty much the full volume of a regular orgasm, but stimulation is stopped immediately as the point of no return is reached, meaning all the fluids come out, and the cock gets no relief. Also with a Ruined Orgasm, the penis becomes more useless as a sex toy... With a Minimized Orgasm, the cock will often remain hard.

As I think back to some of the Minimized/Ruined Orgasms that my girlfriend has performed on me, sometimes I can accurately state that it was either a Ruined Orgasm or a Minimized Orgasm… But many of these experiences fall into an undefinable grey area, somewhere in between… Which is probably what causes the whole confusion between “Ruined Orgasms” and “Minimized Orgasms” in the first place.